(via searchingforbadassmagic)
I LOOK like this woman not in a generic sense but she and I are comparable size > I’m taller but let’s be real when was teh last time you saw aa picture of this that didn’t come iwth a very deep undercurrent of for sale/ nasty/odd or desperately performing for someone’s sexual pleasure
That’s what so often happens with celebrating whiteness or reclaiming or being excited about representation
It’s always representation in some kind of captalistic consumptive but DEVOID of desire bend
and when you very exsistance is structured around a PARTICULAR perverse and destruction concept of you being consumable and ownable through you perseverance and hardiness
( or survivability through submission or spicyness or earthyness or naturalness or disability etc)
You don’t necessarily WANT to be lauded for simply moving the status of being essentially owned up.
You don’t want or desire any MORE invasive attention
You don’t want to be worshipped
You want some one who looks at you with your amazing floppy boobs strong legs and stretchmarked tummy and thinks you’re smart
or can be listened to
and can be stronga nd still have a massive breakdown
and if you ask to blow your fucking back out with kinky shit doesn’t see you as failing or proving those stereotypes about “those”
and doesn’t need to be spread open like a pigroast to be proven
and doesn’t need or earn a metaphorical cookie for it
want to do something Revolutionary make that able to happen more frequently in everybody’s life